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Thursday, 12 December 2013

EXPOSITION ON "THE TITHING CONTROVERSY"

THE TITHING CONTROVERSY:
PART 1:  THE REAL ARGUMENT- IS TITHING A MANDATORY DOCTRINE FOR ALL BELIEVERS IN THE NT OR SHOULD IT BE A SECONDARY ISSUE BASED ON PERSONAL CONVICTIONS?

Opinions are like armpits-everybody has one and I respect that fact. But when it comes to matters relating to the Christian faith, it is not the here-says, popular doctrines, or opinions that count but what the Spirit of God truly reveals about the matter from his Word. When Jesus asked Peter who men said he was, there were many false here-say opinions regarding Jesus. Some said he was Elijah, John the Baptist, etc. But Peter had a personal revelation of the truth in the midst of all the false here-says. It is no different regarding this matter of Tithing. in the midst of all these opinions, there is truth somewhere. It is left to those sincerely seeking to find it.

But Alas! unfortunately many church goers who are not born again and devoid of the Spirit of God or those undiscerning Christians who have been brainwashed by the manipulations or incorrect teachings from the pulpits of their “favourite” pastors have no other choice but to simply regurgitate what they have heard their pastors resound to them over and over again regarding Tithing until they are so married to such false ideas without knowing that they have been deceived and brought under bondage against the liberty of the Spirit wherein Christ has called them to walk. Well, I can understand this pitiable situation because I was once in that boat for so many years when I began my Christian journey until the Holy Spirit by his mercy and grace made it crystal clear to me why it was not necessary for me or any Christian in the NT to pay a Tithe. Just simply go to YouTube and type Tithing scam and watch so many videos on this issue and you will see that God is bringing so many people to the realization of this truth as well.

The first time we ever hear of Tithing in the bible was with Abraham. In Summary, Abraham had just come from battle and he met Melchizedec, the priest of God and offered him Tithes of all the spoils from battle. Notice at this point that no one commanded Abraham to do this-he did this on his own volition. Gen 14:18-20

The second event recorded was with Jacob
Ge 28:20 And Jacob vowed a vow, saying, If God will be with me, and will keep me in this way that I go, and will give me bread to eat, and raiment to put on,
Gen 28:21 So that I come again to my father's house in peace; then shall the LORD be my God: Gen 28:22 And this stone, which I have set for a pillar, shall be God's house: and of all that thou shalt give me I will surely give the tenth unto thee.

Note that in Jacob’s case, his tithing was even conditional-as per “God if you will do this and this, then I will give a tenth...” However, the reader should observe that in both cases BEFORE THE LAW, no one commanded them to tithe. It was simply based on one’s volition.

Then later on when God had his covenant with Israel through Abraham and the mediation of Moses, Tithing was then incorporated into the Law and became mandatory. It was mandatory for the rest of the Jews to give tithes to the Levites, widows, and also mandatory for the tither to eat a part of the tithe as well. God mandated Tithes to be given to the Levites because God commanded the Levites not to do any work at all but to serve in the temple. It was for this reason God said his people had robbed him in Mal 3:8 (a favourite verse for the Tithe pastors which does not apply to them in the NT) because by not giving the tithes, they deprived the Levites of food in God’s house. In the NT, there is no such restriction on ministers of gospel regarding working. For example Paul in the NT worked with his own hands and did not require Tithes from any of the brethren. That is why it is so laughable when anyone tells you that a NT Christian who does not pay his Tithes in this dispensation of liberty to walk with the Spirit is robbing God. It first of all shows that such a person does not even know why God required a tithe and what it was used for in the first place, coupled with the fact that such a person is also ignorant of the context of our faith in the new covenant.

In any case, after the death of Christ the levitical priesthood was abolished and the preceding commandments that governed that priesthood INCLUDING THE MANDATE TO TITHE WAS ABOLISHED-MAL 3:8-10  INCLUDED-See if for yourselves.
Heb 7:5 And verily they that are of the sons of Levi, who receive the office of the priesthood, have a commandment to take tithes of the people ACCORDING TO THE LAW, that is, of their brethren, though they come out of the loins of Abraham:
Heb 7:12 For the priesthood being changed, there is made of necessity a change also of the law. Heb7:18 For there is verily a DIANNULLING of the commandment going before for the weakness and unprofitableness thereof. Heb 7:19 For the law made nothing perfect, but the bringing in of a better hope did; by the which we draw nigh unto God.

So we see clearly that:
1) The mandatory Tithing commandments given in the OT (which includes Mal 3:8-10) was specifically given in relation to the Levites and scriptures clearly say that THEY WERE GIVEN ACCORDING TO THE LAW
2) The levitical priesthood was changed thereby necessitating a change in the Law and in fact a disannulling (to make void) of the commandments associated with the levitical priesthood. Malachi 3:8  (robbing God) Pastors and champions please take note again.

One of the results of these changes to the law is that one was now at liberty to walk with God based on personal convictions regarding  the Spirit’s leading rather than form the context of “LAW” and In fact, the new covenant brought so many changes to the faith. As regards giving for example, one was now at liberty to give God what he had determined in his heart without any mandate on him to give any specific percentage. This was what then defined the context of all giving in the NT.
2Co 9:7 Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver.
Bingo!!! and that is it. In the New Covenant, Your liberty in Christ warrants that you give what you want to give. No percentage is imposed on any Christian.

Should it not cause any honest Christian to ask questions like: WHY IS IT THAT AS IMPORTANT AS PASTORS AND TITHE ADVOCATES PROJECT TITHING TODAY, NEVER DID ANY OF THE APOSTLES IN ANY PLACE IN THE NT SUGGEST OR ENCOURAGE THE BRETHREN TO TITHE? Should this not already begin to raise a red flag? Of course this is just a pointer to the facts already established by the principles of the arguments relating to the new covenant. I only brought this up as an additional pointer to the fact and not that I am using an “argument from silence” as the primary argument here.
In fact I have come to understand over time that one of the reasons many people grapple with the issue of tithing and find it difficult to free themselves from the bondage of their traditional ideas imposed on them is that besides the fact that they have been brainwashed by many pastors (Most of these people do not study the scriptures I must not forget to add), they also lack understanding of the context in which every single believer relates with God in the NT. Yes they know Christ died for them and has set them free from the curses of the Law blah blah blah (although they do not believe the curse from Mal 3:9 is included ), but SOMEHOW THEY DO NOT REALLY UNDERSTAND THE ESSENCE OF CHRIST’S DEATH AND ITS LIBERTY IMPLICATIONS AS IT RELATES TO TITHING AND GIVING.

Yes, the Levitical priesthood has been abolished and the Laws associated with it have also been made void according to scriptures. I do not mean to ridicule anyone, but to be frank, it is a reflection of gross ignorance on the part of anyone to still quote Mal 3:8 today and impose it on God’s people-telling them that they are robbing God when they do not pay tithes. Mal 3:8-10 advocates please when you can show me the Levitical priesthood today and when you can show me where God re-enacted those abrogated laws associated with the priesthood, then I will resume paying tithes. Until then please keep paying your own invented tithes and stop imposing such practices on God’s people as something they are mandated to do. Where is the Levitical priest you pay your tithes to? Where did God ever ask that Tithes be paid in monetary form contrary to his demands that they should consist of the natural things of the land (crops and animals)? Where did pastors receive their rights and commandments to demand and collect Tithes from Christians in the New covenant? They will have to give account to the most high God on that great day.

CONCLUSION:

CHILDREN OF GOD, IN THE CONTEXT OF THE NEW COVENANT, YOU ARE AT LIBERTY TO GIVE GOD WHAT YOU HAVE DETERMINED TO FROM YOUR HEART. THIS IS A REFLECTION OF THE TRUE ''SPIRIT AND TRUTH'' WORSHIP JESUS SPOKE ABOUT. TITHING IS A SECONDARY ISSUE THAT SHOULD BE LEFT IN THE REALMS OF PERSONAL CONVICTIONS RATHER THAN AN ISSUE THAT SHOULD BE PREACHED ON THE PULPIT AS A CARDINAL CHRISTIAN DOCTRINE. IN OTHER WORDS IF A PERSON WANTS TO FOLLOW THE DEEDS OF ABRAHAM OR ISAAC FOR EXAMPLE, THEN HE SHOULD DO SO ON A PERSONAL BASIS WITHOUT IMPOSING SUCH CONVICTIONS ON OTHERS WHO ALSO UNDERSTAND BY THE SPIRIT OF TRUTH THAT THEY ARE AT LIBERTY TO GIVE GOD WHAT THEY HAVE DETERMINED FROM THEIR HEARTS BASED ON THE UNDERSTANDING THAT NOT ONLY HAS THE LEVITICAL PRIESTHOOD AND THE COMMANDMENTS ASSOCIATED WITH IT  BEEN ABOLISHED,  BUT ALSO ON THE CONTEXT OF OUR FAITH IN THE NEW COVENANT THAT BELIEVERS ARE TO BE LED BY THE SPIRIT AND NOT BY "THE LAW".

The principle of personal convictions regarding whether to or not to Tithe and other secondary issues relating to personal convictions were well established by Paul in Rom 14.

Ro 14:5 One man esteemeth one day above another: another esteemeth every day alike. Let every man be fully persuaded in his own mind.
Ro 14:6 He that regardeth the day, regardeth it unto the Lord; and he that regardeth not the day, to the Lord he doth not regard it. He that eateth, eateth to the Lord, for he giveth God thanks; and he that eateth not, to the Lord he eateth not, and giveth God thanks.

Likewise He that chooses to pay a "self invented" tithe in the NT to the Lord, to the Lord he does it, and he that does not regard Tithing, to the Lord he does not regard it. It is no different in principle from what Paul was trying to establish in Rom 14.

It is my sincere prayer that the Holy Spirit will breath life to these words and give understanding and liberation to many of his children who have been put under the yoke of fear and bondage by many teachers in error and many false teachers.

Blessings to all those who love the Lord Jesus Christ.


PART 2:  A BIBLICAL XRAY OF THE ARGUMENT OF MANY WHO CLAIM THEY PAY TITHES OUT OF THE LOVE FOR GOD AND OBEDIENCE RATHER THAN OUT OF SELFISHNESS OR COMPULSION.

You will usually hear many of those who champion the cause of Tithing for NT believers saying things like “I do not tithe because I am mandated to do so, I do so because I love God” while some others will say: “It is a spiritual covenant that guarantees your security” yet another will say “I do tithe out of obedience to the Lord.” And so on and so forth.
Now, while I do not doubt that many of these claimants are sincere, I can also objectively show without personal bias that many of these people making these claims say these things based on what is traditionally expected of them to say rather than for the love for God or obedience. The fact is that if many of these ones were to be sincere based on what I am about to show, they will discover that their motives for paying tithes are primarily informed by two conditions: FEAR OR FAVOUR and I will explain these

1)    FEAR: Fear of the unknown of what possible evils may befall them and their families should they fail to pay tithes. Based on what they have been taught from some pulpits, many of them feel that if they fail to tithe, the devourer in Mal 3 under the levitical priesthood would be resurrected to harm them, their families, and their businesses. Etc LOL.

2)     FAVOUR: The hopes of God fulfilling their expectations of financial investment in Tithing over their “faithful” years of paying tithes materializing by the windows of heaven's financial and material abundance opening so that there would not be enough room to hold such blessings, if they are just somehow faithful in paying their tithes.

I can assure you that although many of these folks would deny this, I will clearly show you from scriptures that what many call Paying of tithes out of obedience or the love for God is a selfish selective process based on their own fear or selfishness rather than for a true love for God. Now see the very clear evidence for this.

The following questions I will ask will get any sincere person thinking. These facts would reveal that many of these people making these claims would not naturally pay tithes if they had read the scriptures on their own without the promptings of their pastors from the pulpit which, depending on the pastor,  will either promise them some grandeur blessings to come as a result of their obedience for tithing or some woeful thing likely to happen to them, their businesses, jobs, or their family members due to the devourer,  should they fail to pay tithes. I want to establish the fact that the vast majority of people who Pay tithes do so based on selectivity and selfishness. What do I mean by selectivity and selfishness? This simply means that they pay the tithe based on how it suits them and not even based on what God says they should do.

A) SELECTIVITY REGARDING OTHER LAWS
Questions:
1) Every single argument made in favour of Tithing also applies to many other commandments of God in the Old Testament-such as observing the Sabbath, giving one’s Firstfruits, Circumcision. All these three commandments were principles and practices in effect before the Law. Abel gave his firstlings long before the Law, God rested on the 7th day before the Law. Abraham received the covenant of circumcision before the Law. Why is it then that these Pastors and tithe advocates deem it fit to quote Mal 3:8-10 in the Old Testament and mandate it on God’s people yet when it also comes to other Laws such as the Sabbath which also have instructions from God such as.

THE SABBATH
Ex 20:8 Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy.
Ex 20:9 Six days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work:
Ex 20:10 But the seventh day is the sabbath of the LORD thy God: in it thou shalt not do any work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter, thy manservant, nor thy maidservant, nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is within thy gates

OR

THE FIRSTFRUITS
Ex 23:19 The first of the firstfruits of thy land thou shalt bring into the house of the LORD thy God. Thou shalt not seethe a kid in his mother's milk.

These Laws have conveniently been ignored by the tithe advocates and yet, the laws mentioned above all have the same arguments these tithe advocates use in mandating tithing for all of God's people as a prerequisite to show love for God, obedience and receive his blessings in return.  We can see clearly that these were also Laws that God required of his people and were also things practiced before the Law.  However these tithe advocates deem it fit to tell you that when Christ died, we were no longer required to do these other ones. However when it comes to tithing, they have this magical unique revelation that tithing was not included in the things which Christ does not mandate we do. LOL.

It therefore becomes clear that many of these Tithe advocates who mandate Tithing who claim love for God/obedience driven Tithing are deceiving themselves and are only being selective in how they apply what Christ’s blood has set us free from. Of course because money is involved and there are selfish gains regarding Tithing, it is not so hard to see why many Pastors will selectively single out tithing and tell you that it is still mandatory, yet abrogate the other laws stipulated by the same God on account of the death of christ. The scriptures are very clear. It warns us that if we want to go by the Laws of God, then we must fulfill all and not just one. For cursed is everyone who does not continue in ALL these things.

 Ga 3:10 For as many as are of the works of the law are under the curse: for it is written, Cursed is every one that continueth not in all things which are written in the book of the law to do them.

Of course many Pastors and their Tithe advocates would argue: “We are not under the Law and do not pay tithes or instruct others to do so based on the Law”. Really?  Then my question would be: What business have you then in telling NT saints that they are cursed and robbing God when they do not pay tithes when these specific curses as well as the commandments to Tithe on which Mal 3:8-10 is quoted is based on the levitical priesthood and the law? See? Can we see the deception and dishonesty here?  I have shown how many tithe payers who claim to do so out of God’s love and obedience do so based on convenient selfish selectivity on how they determine what Christ has done away with and what he has not. I will now proceed to show selectivity regarding the full commandments of tithing itself.

B) SELECTIVITY REGARDING THE COMMANDMENT TO TITHE ITSELF
In fact this aspect I am about to reveal is what hits the nail on the head in showing that many of these pastors hammering their members to pay tithes are simply selfish and their “obedience” claims are really disobedience in disguise.. Before I proceed I would like to establish that there were three types of Tithes God commanded his people to give in the OT and I will clearly show these from scriptures.

1) THE FESTIVAL TITHES
This part of the tithe was meant for the Tither himself. God commanded the tither to eat of his tithe with his family and rejoice as a sign of God’s favour so that the tither may learn to fear the Lord.

Deut 12:17 Thou mayest not eat within thy gates THE TITHE of thy corn, or of thy wine, or of thy oil, or the firstlings of thy herds or of thy flock, nor any of thy vows which thou vowest, nor thy freewill offerings, or heave offering of thine hand:
Deut 12:18 But thou must EAT them before the LORD thy God in the place which the LORD thy God shall choose, thou, and thy son, and thy daughter, and thy manservant, and thy maidservant, and the Levite that is within thy gates: and thou shalt rejoice before the LORD thy God in all that thou puttest thine hands unto.
Deut 12:19 Take heed to thyself that thou forsake not the Levite as long as thou livest upon the earth.

Not yet convinced that God said you should eat a part of your tithe? Okay let us see deut 14:22-27

Deut 14:22 ¶ Thou shalt truly tithe all the increase of thy seed, that the field bringeth forth year by year.
Deut 14:23 And thou shalt EAT before the LORD thy God, in the place which he shall choose to place his name there, THE TITHE of thy corn, of thy wine, and of thine oil, and the firstlings of thy herds and of thy flocks; that thou mayest learn to fear the LORD thy God always.
De 14:27 And the Levite that is within thy gates; thou shalt not forsake him; for he hath no part nor inheritance with thee.

So we see clearly that the Festival tithe was specifically for the person himself to eat with his family of the Tithes and then share with the Levites. God’s instructions are very Lucid-YOU ARE TO EAT OF THESE TITHES YOURSELF and then also give to the Levites.

2) THE WELFARE TITHES
This part of the tithes was to go directly to the widows, strangers, fatherless, orphans and the less privileged DIRECTLY. Interestingly when you bring this to the notice of some pastors, they will tell you that it is for this reason they have welfare departments and build orphanages. LOL. However, note that God did not instruct them to first give this tithe to the Levites who will build orphanages and care centres for these people. God’s people were instructed to give their tithes  to the widows, strangers, Fatherless DIRCTLY and not through proxy by ministers. See for yourselves.
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Deut 14:28 At the end of three years thou shalt bring forth all the tithe of thine increase the same year, and shalt lay it up within thy gates: (me-Note not in the Levitical temple or church)
Deut 14:29 And the Levite, (because he hath no part nor inheritance with thee,) and the stranger, and the fatherless, and the widow, which are within thy gates, shall come, and shall eat and be satisfied; that the LORD thy God may bless thee in all the work of thine hand which thou doest.
Deut 26:12 When thou hast made an end of tithing all the tithes of thine increase the third year, which is the year of tithing, and hast given it unto the Levite, the stranger, the fatherless, and the widow, that they may eat within thy gates, and be filled;

Again notice that the LORD did not tell the people to take this particular tithe to the Levitical Temple so that the Levites can bless them and help God’s people distribute to the widows and the fatherless as this is what many pastors today use as an excuse to evade telling their members about this aspect of tithing. At the end of three years, God’s people were to gather all their tithes for that year and share it between the Levites, the fatherless, widows, etc. But Alas! Do the pastors who claim love for God and obedience teach God’s people about this aspect of tithing in that same love and obedience? Of course not and it should not take rocket science to figure out why-because this particular aspect of tithing does not accrue to them (Claiming they are modern day levites), they are not concerned  and in fact would rather not let God's people know about this lest their ration be shortened.

3) THE LEVITICAL TITHES

Of course I do not think this needs much explanation. This is the one the Pastors and the tithe advocates including some of the ones who have posted here are concerned about, yet many of them negate the first two types of tithes and claim it is out of love and obedience they pay tithe.
Nu 18:26 Thus speak unto the Levites, and say unto them, When ye take of the children of Israel the tithes which I have given you from them for your inheritance, then ye shall offer up an heave offering of it for the LORD, even a tenth part of the tithe.

You see that not only have many of these Pastors selfishly and wrongly re-enacted tithing laws that were specifically required for the levites and have applied it to NT ministry work based on their own selfishness using threats from Mal 3:8-10, they have selectively left out the other two aspects of tithing obviously because those other two are not primarily for them and this obedience and proclaimed love for God seems only to be seen in the levitical tithe which they have unscripturally re-enacted.

So my question for the tithe advocates who claim that they pay tithes out of obedience and the love for God is:
If you love God and you want to be obedient to his tithing instructions, don’t you think you will follow God’s instructions wholly and not selectively for your own selfish needs and selectiveness? The pastors have brainwashed you and enslaved you by compelling you to give 10% taxes to them in the name of Tithing. Of course it is no wonder they are the ones riding the jet planes and living in mansions while you are still struggling with your bills with the hope that someday that abundance of the windows opening in Mal 3: 10 will materialize from your years of 'tithing investment'.

So it is very clear that most of these tithe advocates pay their tithes selectively based on their own selfish interests as it is clear that they leave out the other instructions regarding tithing. Besides, this I have also shown that they selectively abrogate the other laws such as the Sabbath, firstfruits etc and argue that Christ has taken care of those things (which is true) but the issue is: why do they not also apply this same understanding to tithing?
If these people were truly tithing based on obedience and love for God then not only will they also follow the other commandments in the Old Testament out of that same obedience and love for God, they will also practice the three types of tithing. So if the pastors were to justify their claim of helping God’s people to be obedient out of the love for God and they truly had honesty and integrity in this regard, then they will teach their congregations that if they want to tithe-for example say 10,000 naira or whatever currency, they should split the money into three parts as the Lord leads them. Then

a) They should eat a first part of it
b) They should give a second part to the Levites (which they claim to have now become)
c) They should give the remaining parts to the Fatherless, Strangers, Homeless, etc DIRECTLY- not by proxy through the pastor’s ministry.

So for the Pastors who mandate tithing my questions are
Question 1) WHY ARE YO SO SILENT TO YOUR CONGREGATION ON THE OTHER TWO ASPECTS OF TITHING THAT DO NOT PRIMARILY INVOLVE THE LEVITES OR MINISTERS AND WHY DO YOU NOT TELL YOUR MEMBERS ABOUT THE OTHER TWO ASPECTS OF TITHING? WELL WE ALL KNOW THE ANSWER DON'T WE?

To the tithe payers who also mandate tithing my questions are:
1) Why do you pay your tithes and mandate that others do the same based on mal 3 or the argument that it was a hidden principle before the law, yet you negate the other commandments of God that were equally before the Law which have no financial implications or benefits  but have either equal weight or even more weight than tithing?

2) Why do you tithe selectively and not prove your proclaimed obedience or love for God’s instructions by sharing your tithe into three parts-one for you and your family, the other part for you pastor’s ministry, and the third part for the less privileged? Why? Is it because you have been brainwashed or because you are ignorant of God’s commandments regarding tithing? Or is it because you are only concerned about your own selfish interests when you tithe? Why?

Despite most of the evidence to the contrary, many here will still makes statements like: “It works for others do not judge”. Fair enough but what works and what is an honest objective barometer in judging whether tithing is truly working? I will show you from scriptures itself.

Mal 3:10 Bring ye all the tithes into the storehouse, that there may be meat in mine house, and prove me now herewith, saith the LORD of hosts, if I will not open you the windows of heaven, and pour you out a blessing, that there shall not be room enough to receive it.

Now it is not just enough for many tithe advocates to quote “will a man rob God?”  from Mal 3:8 and leave out the other parts in verse 10 that God uses to prove those who claim they are faithful tithers in Mal 3:10. God plainly says that true tithers will have abundance when they tithe to the extent that they will not even have enough room for the blessings right?  We are not talking about unverifiable testimonies such as “my son was sick but when I tithed, he became well” and all such subjective claims. We are using God’s word as the barometer now.
Therefore, If tithing was truly working for many of these tithers as many of them would like to claim, then the banks should have been calling all tithers by now and asking them whether they do drugs or something because based on God’s promises in Mal 3:10, their bank accounts should have been overflowing with milk and honey money by now to the extent that the people would hardly even know how to spend their money.

God says there would not be enough room for it right? So if these ones were faithful tithers and they have proved God, why is it that it is many of these tithers that struggle with their finances while the pastors who receive the 10% tax in the name of tithing are the ones getting fatter and fatter? In fact it does not take rocket science to see what is going on here.

So did God lie? Certainly not-God forbids that one should even imagine that. However the fact is that those specific tithing promises and curses in Mal 3 were specifically relevant to the Levitical priesthood and had to do with animals and crops. God did not permit them to pay tithes in money (Even if they used money back then) because he specifically required the natural things of the land for he considered them holy unto him.

However, many Christians believe that if they can re-enact the commandment that applied to the levites and pay tithes in their own invented and selective styles, like kalokalo, God will someday make them rich and protect their families and businesses against the devourers of our times.  So rather than trust in the finished and accomplished works of Christ on the cross and strive to build a personal relationship with God based on what God seeks of them to please him, they would rather prefer to have formulas from scriptures that would help them selfishly get through life and for many, they would rather just have the formulas without the true Lordship of Christ over them.

Well I am hoping and it is my prayer that if a tither who mandates tithing has endured long enough to read up till this point, the wool should have been taken of his or her eyes by now.

Blessings to all who love the Lord Jesus Christ.

Wednesday, 23 October 2013

A Letter of Gratitude To The Best Father In The Universe


October 22, 2013 at 2:47pm
On my very first day on this side of eternity, I was told the circumstances surrounding my birth and there was no doubt you were there from the very beginning. My earthly father was on the road and little did he know that his first son is about to be born. Mum was home alone and had no money to go to the hospital for what is now called "antenatal". Yet you strengthened her to pound yam and eat it all by herself. Little did she know she was going to need all the energy that meal will provide as she was about to go into labour to deliver a giant and a favourite son of yours. What a night it turned out to be, ushering in mixed feelings for my dad who had come home in search of funds for his schooling only to meet a giant baby boy waiting for him.

If it were not for you, how will my parents have coped through such times? Only you must have helped them through. The difference between a giant and an ant is not only in the “gi” missing from the ant but from the way they’ll consume resource when they need to eat. I was a giant baby and thus sipped a lot from my mama while she did her best to satisfy my daily need for nutrients. I was told that as a baby I won’t sleep until there was “milk from source” in my mouth. I don’t know if I usually drink them in my dreams because I was told that neither a feeder nor a my fingers will do. It just had to be breast or nothing (nobody gets to sleep till the giant is asleep…*smiles*). I am still amazed at how you saw them through all the joy coated with wahala that I brought into their life. I want to say a very big thank you for helping them through the 2 years I was still at this trade *laughs*.

Shortly after I was weaned, they had to experiment with different sizes of feeding bottles for me. Only the biggest size was enough for me as I wouldn’t accept smaller ones (abami omo…lol). Despite their limited resources, you helped them feed me as often as I wanted. I was really a big hole in their pockets as the rate at which I eat was far beyond my years. You kept helping them. I still wonder how many times my mum and dad would have played with the idea of throwing me away or giving me up for adoption. I forgot to mention my wonderful big sister was also part of their responsibility at the time. Thank you for seeing them through again and again. I say a very big THANK YOU! I cannot say it enough in words but listen to my heart and see the depth of my gratitude.

I’d be right if I said all the above is just a tip of the iceberg of your faithfulness through the years. I can point through times and seasons of my life that only you could have been my way out and source of escape. Is it the 6574+ days of continuous bedwetting? That was an experience that almost cost me my life as I made several attempts to terminate it. My self-esteem at this period was at an all-time low. As a matter of fact, I couldn’t see anything good in me despite my obvious enormous potential and mental ability. You alone delivered me and gave me a fresh start. Do I have to remind myself of the four years I struggled to gain admission into the university? Many would have thought that I am jinxed or something but little did I know that you were orchestrating my life in ways beyond my understanding. Though it was such a painful experience and sometimes I felt humiliated and dumb cos my mates and juniors were overtaking me at the time, you were there all along and you got me through that season.

If I were to write in details all you have done for me all through the days of my entire life thus far, indeed many volumes of books will be written and they’ll still be just a summary of your love, goodness and kindness towards me and all mine. As I look back with gratitude at all the 10230 days of your faithfulness and grace towards me, I am simply short of words to say how grateful I am. I may have lost record of many things and may not even know of many other things that you keep doing and blessing me with, I want to list some here that are fresh in my memory like the sun on a hot summer day:
  • For giving me such wonderful parents who’ve given everything you provided for them to give me a life worth living and a future worth looking forward to. I know there’s been many days that I wished ignorantly that I was born by another pair of parents. But looking back, I can see your wisdom and the perfection in your ways. Thank You again and again and forgive my moments of ignorance in time past
  • For giving me such wonderful siblings. The kind many will kill to have. All different in their ways and expressions but all wonderful and such immense source of joy and encouragement to me. I won’t replace you guys for anything in the world. You’ll make many envious with the love you guys give me and I appreciate.
  • For giving me a wonderful and mind-blowing partner and sweetheart. It was almost as if she will never materialize. It was almost as if I wasn’t ever going to get it right. I thank and bless you for bringing her into my life. I’ll definitely need to a whole book to scratch the surface of the details of this wonderful blessing you gave to me at a time I had given up and was even working desperately to sabotage your work on me. Thank You again and again, I am very grateful.
  • For the wonderful friends you have blessed me with. I’ve heard many people lament that they don’t have friends cos there are no more true friends in our days. But I wonder how you always keep blessing me with such wonderful group of friends. These are people who will readily give their life for mine and vice versa*smiles*. They aren’t only consistent but they stick through thick and thin. You guys are wonderful. I don’t want to begin to list your names here so some people won’t come and steal you guys from me *tongueOut*. For as many of you that have been true friends to me, you fall in this category and I thank you for bring them all my way.
  • For all the wonderful people you have opportune me to meet and mentor in one way or another. Thank you for giving me such privilege to be a blessing to many. I know there are many more you will give me grace to be a blessing to. Thank You again and again and again!
  • All my mentors and teachers over the years. If I begin to list your names, facebook will block this page for data overflow error…lol Thank you for giving me such diversity of gifts and I appreciate all they’ve thought me and built in me.
  • I looked through an old list recently (started in 2003) and noticed everything I have ever written down as a request from you has always been granted. Some came quick and almost instantly while some took time but they were always answered. Thank you for such privilege to write a request to you every now and then *winks*. Thank you for consistently putting smiles on my face even when sometimes I go gangster and become rebellious. I thank you for my new phone, my new place of assignment and all the favours you have shown me there already, my health,etc I really do not have enough words to describe how grateful I am to you for everything.
  • I know this list isn’t exhaustive and I have had to omit so many details because of space (so Mark Zuckerberg doesn’t delete my account). I finally want to for the sake of brevity, thank you for Awesome Group. I have seen your hand all through the different seasons and year of its existence. I am more than convinced that it will be established in your own time and will bring well-being to many generations. I can literally write another volume on your faithfulness in this regard. *kisses*
  • I just remembered I’ve never failed any exams since I started my schooling in nursery 1 to my final year in the university. I recall like yesterday how many times in the university I was so so close and even convinced myself there was no hope and carry-overs were inevitable (MTS 104, MTS 409, CSP xxx, etc). But each time you wrought wonders beyond my imagination. All those miracles had nothing to do with me. They were all your way of showing me the depth of your love for me. It was all about you. Thank You!
Daddy I can continue till eternity to list all your goodness, kindness and graciousness to me and all mine. No single volume no matter how large will be able to contain them all. I think this summary should do for now. I know sometimes I can be such a big stress on your mind. I know sometimes I can piss you off so often and give you headaches for days and sometimes months. Please never forget how deeply I love you and how grateful I am for every pint of blood in my veins and every volume of air that my lungs circulates. I know 10230+ days of watching and taking care of me must have been stressful and cumbersome, I want to say a very big thank you that you didn’t give up on me. You kept on going extra miles for me when I didn’t even make attempt to go “m” for u. I want you to know that I love you deeply and always. I won’t stop loving you and I’ll never ever stop being grateful. Thank you again and again and again and again… I love you with every single cell in my body, every single substance in my soul and the whole of my spirit. Thank you and Thank you and Thank you again and again and again and again. You are the best Father in the whole universe. You are the best ever! Mua mua mua mua mua…till infinity

I also want to dedicate this song by Mali Music to you:

Lord if I could buy you a gift
To show you my love
Tell you how I feel
It wouldn't matter what I'd have to give
I would find a way to get it for you
But fortunately that's not the case
And we both know I don't have bank anyway
But I won't let it affect my presentation to you
Cause this is what I bring

Here is my heart my mind
Lord here's my life
My everything
Take it
It's yours oh lord

I’d give you my all
My everything
Every song that I write every song that I sing
Every day of my life every breath that I breathe
You gave to me
And lord I rededicate it right back to you
Love of my life So faithful so true
I get goose bumps just thinking about you
(Repeat 2x's)
And there's nothing I will not do for you
Here is my heart my mind
Lord here's my life
My everything
Take it
It's yours oh lord
It's all I have to give

I give you my best cause I love you
I'm yours  Hmmmmph Ohhhhh..

(Repeat 2x's) Here is my heart my mind
Lord here's my life
My everything
Take it
It's yours oh lord
It's all I have to give

Tuesday, 3 September 2013

My Greatest Answered Prayer!

Ever had a prayer request you never knew how it would be granted? Ever made a request to God and wondered if he heard you and if he'd grant you that specific request? Sometimes it can be a simple request and sometimes it can bother on the absurd! I am not going to be boring you about prayer requests today but want to tell you a brief story of how my own greatest earnest request/prayer was granted to me. 

First of all (if I hear u say "go down low"...), I want to let you into how it all started. I was sitting in a room with two married couples. One newly wedded and the other much older than the former. Like a planned ambush, they both asked me the same questions. "When are you getting married?" And like one who is suddenly possessed by a strange idea, I told them boldly 2040! This was just a year away. All of them looked at me with more of shock than surprise. They wondered what had taken over their friend and brother. Just a few days before that time I had declared that marriage was a thing I didn't want to think of till 2043. I had explained all the parameters that went into my decisions and though everyone around me disagreed, they didn't have a choice cos talking me out of it would be a clear waste of time. So that explains why both couples were shocked rather than surprised. 

Almost like they've been waiting for me to pronounce that statement, they quickly pulled out a catalogue of options since I was very much single and unattached! They paraded all sorts of options. From the well-endowed to the not-so endowed and all the ones in between. I quickly scanned my head and knew this was more of a coup than a sincere concern to help. No doubt the decision was made in a moment of pure inspiration. It definitely must take something out of the ordinary to make it come to a reality. Almost like I was being moved by a force beyond my control, I remembered a name that was missed on the list of options presented to me. One person's face lit up in the room as if to say "that's it!". But this was just the beginning of a journey that would lead to the greatest prayer of my entire life being answered. 

Let me give you a small background into this little story of mine. Mind you it will also take several parts to fully exhaust the ongoing masterpiece being written. It will bring hope to some and instructions to others. In the year 2036, a prayer was made for me by a close female friend of mine. Needless to say its a prayer that has been prayed several times by my parents especially my mom. But the significance of this prayer was amplified by the place, time and settings that this prayer was offered. I have always learnt that long before we pray, God answers us. This may be in part to the fact that if this were not the case, God will have to make too many changes at a time to grant one person's prayer. Right there in that room on that faithful day in 2036 when the prayer was offered, God said a YES to the request. Though the manifestation was still for a few more years in the future. I won't dwell on the events that followed that prayer so it won't derail the real purpose of this write up. 

Fast forward 2 years and 11 months later and the the manifestation of that prayer was about to be made visible albeit in the strangest of ways. First like a man possessed, things began to happen that lacked any logical explanations. I made a decision to make a 4 years journey in 1year. Strange as it may sound, that wasn't according to plan but it was INSPIRED! Have you ever been so possessed by an idea that you don't see any impossibility? So much so that all obstacles look like packs of chocolates to you (all fully edible).Lols. The shock on the faces of the two couples must have been born out of the fact that too many things were involved to make that idea a reality. Surely I had to answer the WHO question first before we can talk of the others (HOW, WHAT, WHERE etc). I remember telling one of my close friend and partner a few days later and he disconnected the call and called back to be sure it wasn't MTN messing with his ears. He knew from the tone of my voice that I wasn't joking and the stage has been set for the most interesting movie of my life to play out. 

Remember I once mentioned God answers our prayers long before we ask them? This was evident in the events that unfolded shortly. I identified my target as IPADEOLA. She's know by many other names but this one is a clear reflection of what happened the day I made the declaration to my family and friends. Immediately I mentioned her name I got a nod from the eldest of the couples and almost immediately I swung into action. Like a plan of the divine, I saw her online! I made a few attempts to get her into a conversation and luckily she responded and I made the most absurd request of the year and asked her for her PIN. Many will feel "what's absurd about asking for a PIN of a total stranger?". What made it absurd was a few months before that, I had collected her phone number and never placed a call through. I know she must have been thinking "who's this weird one".smh. Being the KIND and FRIENDLY person that she is, she gave her bbm PIN to me. This was a monday afternoon. I made sure I sent her bbm messages each day for the rest of the week and promised to call her on saturday of that week. In a flash, saturday arrived and I was nervous. I knew this was a strange script I was acting but didn't know how to stop it from playing out. In a moment of sheer inspiration, I placed the call through and guess what...my voice went missing! I barely can remember the words I spoke in those 2mins calls but I sure must have fumbled beyond words can describe. She didn't hold it against me though (thank God!) as we got back on bbm shortly afterwards. All was going on well till she gave her mission statement "I hope you are not hoping for any relationship with me, cos I am not INTERESTED". This sure wasn't a pack of chocolates. This was a nuclear bomb unleashed on my dream and answer. But as one who was backed by the divine, I replied after some delay "we never even 'F' u don block the 'RIEND' not to talk of 'SHIP'". She laughed and told me we were friends already (that was sooo encouraging *winks*). We continued our friendship through all the means of communication I could lay hands on. She's a CUTE NAUGHTY ANGEL. So its not uncommon to have her give funny answers to serious questions (can be frustrating at times). A few days shy of a month later, we met for the first time (physically). I will never forget how I called her up that weekend and told her I was coming to say hello to her. She must have wondered what will make a man traverse over 300km to meet a lady for the first time. It didn't matter anyways as I made the trip and got some interest clues on the way that God was with me. I forget to add that after my voice deserted me that saturday I mentioned earlier, I said a prayer to God that "if it be your will Lord, favour me on this journey and make things work out beyond my abilities". That faithful day I saw clues that God answered that sincere prayer from my heart as I obtained favour as I made the trip down to the Centre of Excellence. 

I arrived her abode at about past 2 in the afternoon under such scorching sun that seemed like AC to me in my jean-shirt-jacket combination. While I waited to be given directions to our meeting point, she signalled me that there's been a little change in plans (I was going to come over to her house instead of going to see the movies as earlier planned). This made me more nervous and it almost upset my system but I kept my cool. When I arrived at the street she asked me to alight, I waited to be given further instructions. While waiting, I saw the SUN rise right before my eyes. She emerged from a gate with the smallest of frames I've ever seen. She was PETITE. Had a yellow top and a blue jean on. She had one of those SLEEPY SEXY eyes that makes you think so many things I can't begin to explain here (this is PG 13 remember?)Lols. Her voice was like nothing I've heard before. SONOROUS but SOOTHING. It was of ANGELIC grade. We entered the house and she offered me a seat and cold water (how I needed that at that moment - not because I was hot but cos my system had been thrown off balance by the AWESOME BEAUTY before me). She also put on the AC to cool my sun-heated body. Somehow, I have forgotten all my manifestos that I practised for hours before I got on the bus. After exchanging pleasantries, I went cold and almost completely silent. True to her expressive and blunt nature, she said "I was boring". That was the second nuclear bomb unleashed on my dream. Little did I know that won't be the last for the day. I stayed calm and tried hard to recompose myself. I eventually grabbed the microphone close to 2hours later and made the most important 1hour speech of my entire career. I spoke and spoke and illustrated and illustrated and said everything my mouth can speak. But she quickly told me "I'm not marrying you". This must have been a crazy idea in the first place. How can I propose marriage to a person I'm meeting physically for the first time? This and many more questions bombarded my mind as I tried to recover from the second nuclear bomb unleashed on my dream in a single day. One way or the other, the day ended well and I returned home a fulfilled man. 

Events began to unfold that made it seem the dream would never be a reality. A lot of things began to happen that made it seem the answer to the prayers of yesteryears would never be received. I will explore those events in a later version of this note. I want to conclude this first part on this note: 

She didn't seem very impressed with me at the initial stage. Infact I had no selling point at all. As I got closer and closer to her, I began to see why God must have been amused at the many attempts I had made to answer the prayers myself. I feel very privileged and blessed to be given a gift as priceless as this. I can write a library full of books about this wonderful woman. She is full of GRACE and WISDOM. She's PRETTY but not HAUGHTY. She's INTELLIGENT and HUMBLE. She has VALUES that make one wonder if she fell straight from heaven. She has a heart of GOLD. She's RATIONAL and COMPASSIONATE. She's GODLY. I could go on and on and on till I run out of dictionary words. I forgot to add that she's INDEPENDENT and DEPENDABLE. She's a woman you can be sure will keep her words (INTEGRITY). She's a true LEADER. PASSIONATE and always HOPEFUL for the best in others. UNBELIEVABLY GOOD LOOKING. I know I don't deserve this enormous gift God has placed in my hands. I am not only blessed but have been condemned to a life of AWESOMENESS. As I bring this first part of this note to a close, I want you to know that I placed this note in the public domain so the world will know that I'm committed to you and most importantly, I LOVE YOU with every cell in my body (both dead and alive). I have always told God how grateful I am and I pray He gives me the ability and wherewithal to show it till the end of time! 

Like I always tell you, after Jesus Christ, you're the best thing that ever happened to me. You are my greatest prayer ever answered! I cherish you and pray God keeps you till the end of time. You will grow old and grey with me and we will fulfill God's purpose together! You brought too many things to list here to my life. Thank you very much. mwaaaaa

Delayed Gratification...How Does It Help?

We identified INSTANT GRATIFICATION as a major problem of our age. The solution is what great men call the virtue of DELAYED GRATIFICATION. I prefer to call it the SEED-TIME-HARVEST paradigm. 

I have read many biographies, watched countless hours of interviews & read many books of great men & women. One of the most consistent trait of these people is their ability to Delay Gratification!

Delaying Gratification is just the ability to WAIT to BE, HAVE and DO what you desire. It is the ability to go through the required PROCESSES to attain whatever results you require. Imagine a new born baby that wants to eat bones. Imagine a 12 year old that wants to own a Range Rover. Imagine a fresh graduate that wants to be the CEO at MTN. Imagine a farmer wanting to harvest after just putting the seed in the ground a few minutes before...the list is endless. There's absolutely nothing wrong with their desires but they've forgotten the Seed-Time-Harvest cycle. Time is the key ingredient. My dear friends, we must learn to WAIT! There's nothing bad in going through the PROCESS to greatness.

Whatever comes to you without the proper process of time will exit your life in no time. You may love to play the guitar. But if you don't go through the process of learning to play the guitar you'd just be an accomplished noise maker at best. Even your TALENTS don't become SKILLS till it has been worked on with TIME! In the corporate world we have what we call DUE PROCESS. Whatever doesn't follow due process will end up being problematic in the end.

Don't be deceived by the lure to become an instant millionaire. There is no such thing! Jim Rohn the American Billionaire was once called an overnight success and he said that "overnight" took him 30night-years!

We'd conclude dis 2moro with more examples.

God bless you. Do have a productive day({})

Awe Olaleye
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@AweOlaleye

God bless Nigeria!

Instant Gratification...What's Wrong With It?

The dearth to Learning despite the increase in knowledge is disturbing. How can there be so much knowledge and such few wisdom?

Today I'm highlighting the second of these ills. Its the culture of INSTANT GRATIFICATION! This particular one explains why we have so many young people who can't wait for anything. Their mentality is the SEED-HARVEST paradigm. Very contrary to the SEED-TIME-HARVEST paradigm God put in place from the beginning.

People can't wait to make money. People can't wait to have sex. People can't wait to become "oga at the top". etc. The effect of this new culture is:

1) More sex but no love
2) More money but no value
3) More rulers but no leaders
4) More churchgoers but no disciples
And the list is endless

Imagine a man who has not contributed anything to his society but wants to ride the best cars. Another one wants to do what their parents do without taking on the attached responsibilities. Explains why people jump queues (and cause unnecessary hold-ups). I can literally write a book on the ill effects of this defect in our culture today.

The following questions will help you assess yourself before we get down (tomorrow) to the solution to this cancerous ill in our society:

1) Do you earn more than the value you create?

2) Do you want to start at the top (disdain for growth processes)?

3) Do you start a relationship before being ready for its attached responsibilities?

4) Do you demand when you have no resources to supply?

When you give so little and get so much, eventually you won't amount to much. Life is a series of exchanges. Seed, Time and Harvest shall not cease (Bible)

What are you giving for what you desire?

Poverty (not only money) comes as a result of having NOTHING to EXCHANGE!

God bless you and have a productive and stress-less day({}) 

Awe Olaleye
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@AweOlaleye

God bless Nigeria\=D/ 

Are You Growing Or Just Existing?

There's a new culture in our generation that's being passed down to those coming behind as well. Its a very destructive habit that has the potential to cause us enormous pain in future. Have you seen how "gists" sites make millions and educational sites struggle to break even? I was on NDANI TV on youtube and noticed most of the Juice videos had well over 100,000+ views while interviews with CEOs and Business Minds had far less than 10,000 views. Even the interview with Dangote (richest black man) had just a little over 10,000 views. What does this tell you?

We have thrown the hunger and eagerness to learn out of the window. We want instant results without equal input. Many of us want to be richer than Dangote but won't put in the 18hours-a-day work the man puts into his business. We won't read the books in Niyi Adesanya's library. Nor ask Steve Harris how he made N17million in 11months (I'm sure it didn't happen on an empty head). Dr. Myles Munroe reads an average of 8 books a week .

The truth remains that we'd never attain beyond the level of our enlightenment! Watch a man make more money beyond his mind can handle and he'll lose it before you get the chance to say "Noodles"!

Don't be deceived "A person cannot travel within and stand still without". What you attain in life is proportional to what goes inside and what happens within you.

My friend "EAT for the journey is FAR"!

Do have a fruitful day and God bless you({})

Awe Olaleye
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@AweOlaleye

God bless Nigeria!

Our New Nigeria

NEW NIGERIA

Before going to bed, i had to eat something. I opened d fridge nd yes, all d things in my fridge had turned to block; d light had been on for 8 years without going off. I finished eating nd went to bed. Oh I ve to reduce d speed of this fan, d voltage is so high. I woke up very early in d morning to d sound of classical music. I casually strolled into the bathroom. Oh! The cold
is too much this morning, i turned on d hot-water tap. While towelling myself dry, I turned on the radio and heard the presenter speaking of how Nigeria is now one of the most developed countries in the world and how d Nigerian president yesterday declared his asset and all he had to boast of was N20 million naira and a duplex in his village. I finished dressing up and took my time to eat. I had no reason to rush, afterall the road is always free and there are no pot holes.

On d way, i saw a few policemen patrolling and I greeted them. I stopped to chat wit dem 4 a few minutes after which i drove off laughing. In my
workplace, i saw some people loitering in d. waiting room nd discovered dey were here to be interviewed.I saw d son of the permanent secretary. I also saw a young man with tattered shoes nd patched-up trouser; he graduated recently from one of d government universities,
but everyone could testify to the fact that
he's brilliant.

While going home that day, i saw the man with d tattered shoes smiling and i asked him why. "Sir, i've been given d job." "What! What of the Permanent secretary's son, didn't his father call beforehand? No "D man said, "He
didn't" That evening, i went out 2 play in D
neighborhood, i saw Adamu and Obinna discussing d recent trend in the country, of hw Mallam Danjuma is now d governor of Rivers state, Senator Abifarin Oluwafemi is now the governor in Borno state, Mr Chijioke Godffrey is now the governor of Oyo State...

If this looks like the Nigeria you want to see. Share as you believe!

Awe Olaleye
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God bless Nigeria!